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SGR 089: What To Do When You Have a Lot of Time Together and No Shared Hobbies

June 11, 2020 Marina Voron
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Before we get into this week’s episode, we wanted to let you know that while we are resuming our regular content, we will continue to support Black people in their fight for justice and encourage our non-Black listeners to continue doing the anti-racism work.

If you and your partner have been “staying at home” together these past few months, you may have come to a realization:

We have no shared hobbies.

So many couples are facing this, as the usual hustle-and-bustle has been paused. Gyms, restaurants, and movie theaters have been closed. Spas and salons have been closed. Spending time with friends has been put on hold.

You may have been looking at your partner trying to figure out what in the world you’re going to do together. This can be challenging for a number of reasons.

It can drum up feelings about compatibility. What does it mean if we don’t have shared hobbies? Are we not a good match? Do we not have any of the same interests?

It can cause conflict when you try to agree on ways to spend time together. You may want to go for a bike ride, but your partner may prefer to stay inside and watch a movie. Facing these disagreements over and over can lead to frustration and resentment.

It can make you feel distanced from your partner. We don’t have things in common, so I have no choice but to turn away from them. I’ll focus on my own interests and they can focus on their own interests. We’re living parallel lives, but I wish we could be closer and more connected.

If any of these feel familiar to you, be sure to check out this week’s episode. We’re talking about the pros + cons of having separate hobbies in your relationship, the problem with creating a “problem” around not having shared hobbies, and how to cultivate shared hobbies + interests with your partner.

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Silveron Productions LLC and Nassau Wellness Marriage and Family Therapy PLLC do not hold itself out to be your psychologist, psychiatrist, psychotherapist, or social worker. Our content is provided for informational and educational purposes only and is not to be perceived or relied upon as medical or mental health advice, diagnosis or treatment. Do not use our content in lieu of professional advice given by qualified medical and mental health care professionals and do not disregard professional medical or mental health care advice or delay seeking professional advice because of information you have received from us. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified mental health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition or mental disorder. If you think you may have a medical or mental health emergency, call your professional caregiver or 911 immediately. We do not recommend or endorse any specific tests, physicians, psychologists, psychiatrists, psychotherapists, social workers, products, procedures, opinions, or other information that may be mentioned in our content. By viewing our content, you acknowledge and agree that the following warnings and disclaimers apply to all of our content and agree to indemnify and hold Nassau Wellness and all content participants for any and all losses, injuries, and damages resulting from any and all claims that may arise from your use or misuse of the content.

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